Next is blush: Nars in Amour and I wait till I have finshed my hair before I put on my lipstick *blow drying my hair is not fun when I have lipstick on*

Next is blush: Nars in Amour and I wait till I have finshed my hair before I put on my lipstick *blow drying my hair is not fun when I have lipstick on*

Yep, I am queen of the double entendres! So last night Antz massacred some fabric trying to sew together a monkey costume. The more he worked on it, the worse it became, it was not working. Poor baby, he kept asking me what I thought and I gave him one of these
*I LOVE that face!!* Aimee and I say that to each other like 500 times a day. So he went to bed a bit sadders about his lame costume. I kept telling him, he could always break out the Leprechon look if he can’t come up with anything. Well, my dear husband is King of throwing something random together, he was hell bent on being a monkey so he was up early putting together what he likes to call
He just aimed me that noone at work knows who he is, they think he made the monkey head *he bought it from a Thrift shop last night* Haha, I think he looks very Paul Frank chic, he pulled it off *again, at the last second*
But to be honest we both know we could have done better this year. We usually go all out for Halloween but next year will be a family costume. Liv is wearing her fairy costume *hooray for laziness on my part*
I need to jump in the shower and start on my makeup, I will try to get as many pics as I can but Antz isn’t here to be my photographer *Boo!* I am going to Antz job early so I can take pics of the costume contest and then we are going to the Nick party. You’ll have to forgive me but Mixtape Friday may be delayed until tonight *My Halloween Hits*. Later Skaters!!
P.S. Thankies to my 9 lovelies, I appreciate you taking time to read about the chronicles of a dork like me!!
Well, I am going to be a 1960’s housewife à la Mad Men. I wanted to keep it a secret until I was in full costume until I saw I blabbed about it here. Shows how well I can keep a secret. So, my vision was retro refinement. I pulled out my beauty school arsenal and instantly added 12 inches to my hair.
See what I did there? So reality has been setting in and it’s time for me to face realty facts. The first, we may not be able to sell our house in the next 4 years *our neighborhood is in a ridiculously low price range* so selling at a profit is laughable and second fact, even if we were able to sell *by some miracle* my dream house may not be for sale. So faced with these unwanted truths, I need to come up with a serious game plan. Four and a half years isn’t that much time in California real estate. When we started looking to buy *way back in 2005* we spent every weekend *and some Thursday evenings* for a year and a half at open houses. By the height of the cuuurazy housing bubble, we were putting in offers on houses sight unseen and even considering 1 bedroom/1 bath just to get into our desired neighborhood *back then we wanted Eagle Rock*. That was the old days, the sensationalism is now gone, people are taking their time, loans are harder *close to impossible* to get. We are stuck smack dab in the middle, too poor to be rich and too rich to be poor. I keep hearing my Mom’s voice in the back of my head telling us to wait to buy. Well if it were up to her, we would have built our own mini-estate on her 10 acres *complete with pool* in Apple Valley yet she still isn’t convinced that Antz 4 hour daily commute isn’t fathomable. The neighborhood I want to move into has pros & cons, even if we were in a position to buy, I only have eyes for my lovely dream house
I really wouldn’t want to even live in Atwater Village unless I bought that house *the brat in me is alive and well* Everyone keeps telling me I’ll find another house that is better but I have done my research, there are very few houses that have all the amenities I am looking for.
Dream House Pros:
LOCATION – not only in Atwater Village *the area with less crime and nicer homes*, but within walking distance to Glendale Blvd shops, in close enough walking distance to Los Feliz shops and restaurants, far enough from heavy traffic, sweet area full of families. We have walked there often and met rad, friendly people like us! In the vicinity of Griffith Park, great schools *Liv’s Preschool* and less than 10 minutes to Antz job. Yet it’s still close to all our regular places; Fresh & Easy, In & Out, my dry cleaners ans car wash, we already know a rad couple who live in the neighborhood, the Americana & less than 20 minute drive to Olivia’s future elementary school. That has me sold already!!
1920’s Spanish style – Although I am more of a Craftsman bungalow type girl, this Spanish has the most unique features
Rumor has it, an architect once owned the house and added the 2nd story in the bathroom because there was a lack of natural light. I love the height of the ceiling but the baby blue must go! I can live with the light fixture for now.
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| Barrel ceilings |
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| I have never been a fan of granite, I would most likely install marble countertops and cement tile backsplash |
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| I’ve always wanted a dutch door, which I would paint pink. |
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| white, bright with an island |
It’s an older home *which gives it room for renovation* but has so much character and surprises. The house has room for improvement but we won’t have to sink most of our money into big structural *not fun* projects like our house does. Besides paint, refinishing the floors, decor, new light fixtures and window treatments, it’s move in ready! So many sweet elements make this house my absolute favorite!
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| this space off the master has so much potential |
SECURE/PRIVACY – After spending the last 4 years in a secluded property *well at least in our backyard* a private living space is a necessity. This house already has an alarm installed and although the fence needs replacing in the front yard, it’s gated. Our old apartment’s balcony faced 3 other apartments and it was awkward sitting out there with 3 other people staring at you. The backyard has total privacy and high trees and bushes to keep the looky-loo’s at bay. As well as, a locked front gate to stop the unwanted solicitors.
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| Look how happy this guy looks by the pool! |
GUEST HOUSE – I used to think a guest house is unnecessary but this one is a total bonus. With my Mom/Mom-in-law, BFF, and friends who tend to get drunk and are unable to drive home, this has become a must have. I also like the idea of having an entertaining space that won’t wreck our entire house *as well as guests not using our bathroom, yecch* When we visit our friend Keith’s to go swimming, I always feel weird using his *very manly* shower so I always fantasized about having the perfect guest bathroom, with tons of towels, guest toiletries and a dryer right there to throw their wet bathing suits in.
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| It’s a large space with room for a sleeper sofa and a bar |
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| I would also use the guest house as a craft space |
2 BEDROOMS/DEN – Since our family is now VERY complete, I know exactly how much space we will need. We have 2 bedrooms now but Antz lost his separate office when we converted into Liv’s room and I never had an office space *I have a tiny desk in our bedroom* of my own so I roam around the house on my laptop. I would love a den that would serve as our family multi-purpose room *both our offices, our TV room and a casual hangout room* I love the layout, it’s perfect for our needs.
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| The media center is hidden behind the doors |
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| This is a nice outdoor space for a lounge set |
POOL/PRIVATE BACKYARD – I grew up swimming everyday. I need to be in the water. I want to teach Olivia to swim like a fish. Not having a pool in California is like not having air conditioning in Las Vegas. I have searched every single house *thanks to Google Maps* in Atwater Village and of the 20 or so that have in-ground swimming pools, this house is the only one that has all the requirements I need. I want a small enough pool that it doesn’t feel like a chore to maintain, round shaped and it’s already set up with solar heat. There was another pool house a few blocks from this house for sale but it was much smaller, didn’t have a guest house, traditional style *yawn, boring* the backyard didn’t have any grass *concrete is lame*, the pool was outdated and lined in brick and no privacy. I even considered scheduling an appt. just to see it but Antz and I walked past it one evening and saw the condition of the house and the street it was on and were totally turned off. Now look at this beauty…
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| The only thing I would change is converting it to a salt water system |
I LOVE that the previous owner had this sanctuary area off of the master bedroom *so something I want to do* and although there is more trees than I would care to have, it feels very tranquil. I would add a water feature or even a pond. That is something I haven’t found in other houses, the feeling of a resort in your own backyard. Although our house has beautiful 180 views, you have to look past the dozens of rooftops and crappy surrounding houses. It may be worth not having the hillside views to not hear my *eye roll* horrible neighbors.
Well, believe it or not, there are some Cons to consider.
Sustainability of the neighborhood – I worry that the recession will continue to force all the Mom & Pop shops to close on Glendale Blvd which would negate the charm about Atwater that we love. So many of my favorite shops *Coldstone Creamery {which I know isn’t a M&P but I love their ice cream} Black Maria Gallery, Amelia Fitzwater {cutesy shop} and All Aboard boutique* have already closed which sucks. There still is a strong community energy that we don’t have in Highland Park. People actually smile and say “hi” when you walk past them. There are community activities *an active Neighborhood Council, Atwater Summer Nights, Trick or Treating, Christmas Tree Lighting and Movies in the Park* besides crappy garage sales and taco trucks that’s all Highland Park is famous for. As you saw last week, even celebs frequent the area and I have read that Canele is owned by a celeb’s wife.
CRIME – No matter where you go, it’s still LA, there is still crime/homelessness. Antz and I have spent alot of time in the area and have always felt comfortable walking around *particularly past dark* but there is the seedy area near the LA river that bothers me. I have read about homicides, burglary, cars being broken into or windows being smashed and there’s a paint your curb scheme constantly happening. It’s less crime than Highland Park but enough to keep the doors locked and the alarm set.
NO GARAGE – I have been spoiled having my garage at this house, as little as I use it *I just shuttle in and out of my car and occasionally take out the garbage* not having a garage to park my car seems tragic. I have a solution to this problem but it would take space away in the backyard that I wanted to use to set up a play area for Olivia.
Use this grassy corner
We need the storage and ideally a space for home improvement projects. Antz has always parked his truck on the street so I would park my car in the driveway. It’s all about compromise!
ONE BATHROOM/TINY CLOSETS – Currently, the house has only 1 bathroom. I vowed to never live with one bathroom again. Liv will one day need her own bathroom, and I would love a huge master bathroom. The bright side is, we could add a guest bathroom to the guest house. The not-so-bright side is who wants to go to the guest house to take a shower? That leads me to the small closet space problem. I have monopolized our bedroom closet *I swear, I do not have that many clothes* so Antz has been using the office closet well, now that we have an addition to our clan, he is now sharing the tiny closet with his daughter. In the near future, that will no longer be an option and Antz will have to keep his clothes in the backyard. This house has even smaller closets *love how economical those folks in the 20’s were* BOO!
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| The spacious master bedroom closet, no I’m serious! |
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| The second closet in the den |
So despite having the closets outfitted by Easy Closets and condensing our wardrobes to the bare minimum, I will be pretty miserable with the closet space and storage. We are bursting at the seams now, I can’t imagine not having more closet space in our future home. I have always envisioned an adorable closet like this one

I would love to have a craft closet like this one
PRICE – Bah, this one grumps me out the most. It always boils down to money. I can rationalize till the cows come home but the fact is, I don’t know if *who am I kidding, I know* we can afford this house. Purchasing our house was a breeze, we had a good mortgage broker, decent credit, we had a pre-approval letter for $600k fromt he bank, a drama-free closing and we were able to negotiate *thanks to our wonderful agent* so we got all of our closing costs back at escrow. The time’s they are a’ changing! Even if, we sold *which I have no clue how that can happen* we would have to sell at a loss which leave no profit to use as a 10 or 20% down payment. And even if, the house was for sale Zillow is zestimating the value at $723k. It is literally is the most expensive house on the block. We would have to be able to afford that price range and getting a 30 year fixed mortgage today is near impossible. Olivia’s school tuition/my travel plans, spending money to repair our house to sell…we can’t afford it! I know what’s in my heart and I know this Atwater Village house is in my heart. I am used to challenges and making things happen. For the first time ever, I am completely clueless how I can make this happen. I am beyond grateful that we have our modest little house. I am beyond happy my hubby has an awesome job that provides us the luxury of me being able to stay at home and take care of Liv. I am so counting my blessings that we are happy and have more than we need. I just want to provide Liv with a safe environment that allows her to have a rad childhood. I don’t see that happening here. There are no parks I would take her to around here. I can’t take evening walks with her around this area *so not safe and full of barking vicious guard dogs* and we spend so much of our time in Atwater Village that I feel like such a poser, why can’t I make this work??!!
My little girl isn’t so little anymore, she is 21 years weeks old!!. I can’t even recognize her from her birth photos.
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| The man cave Before |
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| The handmade mobile of us. Created by Anthony after hearing me moan and groan about ugly mobiles. |
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| Before |
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| After *I was 6 months preggers at this point*. Today it’s packed to the top! |
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| You’ve come a long way, BABY! |
I am ordering it as soon as I find out if she can make it in Liv’s size because her shop only has size 12 months and up. HAPPY HAPPY!!
Last week we had some rainy weather and it helped our sad back yard garden.
Yesterday we went to Pasadena to use a gift card I got from the Right Start. Since we were in the area, we stopped by my favoritest store in the world *which of course is Anthropologie* to check out the kid’s clothing line. The saleswoman told me they always have kid’s clothes at holiday time so I know they are out for a limited time. Hopefully, I’ll score some good stuff on sale *which she won’t be able to wear for a few years*
I tried to get my jump photo of the week but Antz couldn’t get a good one of me. I had to take one of him since he told me I needed to improve on my jumping skills. I am convinced it’s my photography skills that captured this awesome jump!
We finally bought the Fisher Price Vintage toys I’ve been wanting for some time now for Liv’s Christmas presents.
Since I had a gift card I was thinking of getting her a Bumbo seat but The Right Start only had a Bebe Pod by Prince Lionheart.
We had to put Liv in it because although the box says 3-12 months we along with the sales ladies agreed she’d definitely outgrow it by the time she was 6 months. We also made the discovery that based off of Liv’s height, she may be outgrowing her car seat soon than expected. I really like this convertible seat from Clek that we can take to London since it folds as a backpack and it got great ratings on Amazon.
I also picked up some Diaper Dekor refills and more Mustela moisturizer *love how yummy it smells*. As we were leaving Antz mentioned that they didn’t have any Yo Gabba Gabba! toys so I got the brilliant idea that we need to make an outfit for Liv to wear to the show in November. Crafty Antz said let’s go to Michaels and get some felt and I’ll make a Brobee shirt. We picked up the felt *for a whopping $3* and made it home in time for his sister Debra to arrive to babysit Liv.
We rushed to Paramount and just missed the first 5 minutes of Paranormal Activity 2 *but we didn’t miss much* We saw the first one and I thought that one was much scarier since it was original and we didn’t know what to expect. The second one was just a lot of the same with a lame ending. Almost everyone in the theater hung out until the credits were over expecting more to happen *a bunch of nothing, so I guess that leaves it open to a part 3, BOO!*
We went home and Debra had made spaghetti for us for dinner, so we ate and had some red wine *Yellowtail, I believe* and I made cookies. Deb hung out for awhile which was fun and we had a nice time. We had a chance to catch up on our DVR shows and made it to bed before midnight *hence no post last night* Another quite boring day in my life but I am perfectly content. I am smacking myself for slacking on sewing my fabric for my Halloween costume. I also just found out that not everyone from Antz job was invited to the party this Friday so we don’t know who will be there *LAME* If noone we know is going we just might slag it off and stick to our original plan of Trick or Treat on the BOOlevard in Atwater Village. Although, there is a high possibility that Nick Jr. characters *crossing my fingers Yo Gabba Gabba* may be at his company party and I can never pass up a photo op!! You know what’s sucks?? I had this Brobee pillow in my Amazon cart and today I checked it and the price went from $16 to $30!! *LAME TO THE MAX!!*
Ok, sorry for the corny title but today we met Carlos & Steph in his clothing studio in Downtown. Carlos and his friend has a men’s loungewear line called Necessary Baggage *we went to their launch party back in January* For years I have wanted to check out a loft in downtown and today I got my wish. Carlos’s studio is just a few blocks from Mac & Cheeza. His place is super rad..
Tonight Antz took me to one of my favorite eateries, Alcapulcos in Atwater Village. I was cramming chips and salsa down my throat so much my jaws hurt. So we decided it would be wise to take a brisk, evening walk after our meal. As we were sauntering down the boulevard, I joked to Antz that guy in the Vietnamese noodle restaurant looked like Bret from Flight of the Conchords. Antz said THAT REALLY IS BRETT!! I did a serious double take and indeed it was Bret McKenziein *my* Atwater Village slurping noodles. I smacked my forehead and said D’oh because I foolishly left the Nikon at home *didn’t think I needed to schlep it around* and I wasted the battery on the Canon Powershot taking pics at Alcapulcos so my only option was my crappy iPhone camera. I asked Antz to take a pic but it didn’t come out so great.
He kept urging me to go inside and ask for a real picture but I really didn’t want to disturb his meal *or his 2 friends*. We seemed to be the only folks fawning over him and suffice it to say, we spent an hour walking back and forth past the window. I tried to casually video him but it came out terrible. If you haven’t heard of FOC please watch the following video *watch it even if you have heard of them, if you please*
Well, I chickened out on yet another celeb photo op. BOO! Tomorrow we are meeting Carlos & Steph at his studio in downtown *so excited to see it* and shop for accessories for my Halloween costume. I am sort of bummed because our friends are going to Knott’s Scary Farm but Antz & I have been almost 10 times and we are pretty burnt out on it.
Sunday Antz sister, Debra is babysitting Olivia while we go to Paramount to see Paranormal Activity 2. I am sure it’s going to creep me out because it shows a little baby being tormented by a demon *EEEP!*
That’s right, Mix Tape Fridays is back and better than ever! I sound like an Infomercial but I just downloaded a bunch of stuff from iTunes this week that I am excited about.
This first one is more of an Antz favorite. He has a penchant to what I like to call “Music to slit your wrists to”. Pretty melancholy, sad-sack tunes *hence his love of Radiohead* But I can’t say I dislike this chick. I downloaded her Covers album and it’s pretty rad
“Troubled Waters” Cat Power
I have liked this band for a few years now. They are definitely on my bands to see live list. Groovy tunes.
“Golden Skans” Klaxons
Sometimes I am in the mood for some happy music. This band is pretty mainstream and this is what I consider an “oldie” but they aren’t too annoyingly trendy *or maybe they are*. Oh well, I’ve been rockin’ out to this song all week.
“A-Punk” Vampire Weekend
Nothing makes me happier than a sweet 80’s tune. Aimee & I are both pretty much obsessed with the movie 16 Candles. I know every single song on the soundtrack but I just downloaded these guys yesterday when Aimee came over. We were totally geeking out!!
“If You Were Here” Thompson Twins
Contrary to popular belief, I am an undercover Rockabilly chick…I like a bunch of psychobilly bands and enjoy partaking in East LA cholita fashion, example: *ok, bad example, can’t seem to find the photo I had in mind, but here’s me and Flav*
“Haunted Cathouse” Nekromantix
I think it’s blasphemy for anyone to even attempt to cover a Björk song *I’m looking at you Thom Yorke* but Aimee brought a cover to my attention that I didn’t throw a major eye roll at. It seems that Björkie was being honored and Swedish pop singer Robyn *who I loveeee* sang a tribute to her. So hauntingly pretty, I am looking for it on iTunes!!
“Hyperballad” Cover of Björk by Robyn
So of course Antz & I have been playing ridiculous amounts of Music is Awesome but this is not your ordinary kid’s singing “the farmer and the dell”. There are such amazing bands *The Shins, Ladytron, Of Montreal and Biz Markee* to name a few. I fell in love with this band from watching YGG, I would be interested to hear more from them.
“Listen” Paco
Let’s get in the spirit of Halloween with some Nightmare Before Christmas covers. The first one is a chick I adore and had the privilege of seeing live a few years ago. Too bad she only puts an album out once every 4 years. She’s a total recluse/weirdo but her voice is fantastic.
“Sally’s Song” Fiona Apple
The next NBC cover is a band I really like *Antz can’t stand them* but I really love the lead singer Brandon Flowers *but only in a gay way*. It’s as pop as I like to get.
“This is Halloween” Panic at the Disco
And now, the song of the week!! I have massacred this song. I play it non stop *much to Antz dismay*. Since it appears to be covers week *not intentional* Here’s a cover of a song I normally didn’t like *not a fan of the original band* but the band covering it is super rad!! I love their take on it, so melodic and whimsical. Give me anything with an orchestra and a singer who can actually sing and I am happy happy. Yay!
“When You Were Young” Cover of The Killers by The Noisettes